The Home of a Well Crafted Man

Your Space Should Reflect You: A Guide to Intentional Home Design for Men

I’m a firm believer that your space should be a reflection of who you are. As someone who loves good design and appreciates a well-thought-out environment, having a place to come home to that brings the right energy is essential.

Design styles vary wildly—from maximalist spaces filled with bold colors and eclectic artwork to soft, minimalist homes that quiet the mind. Whether you lean toward vintage charm or modern sleekness, your style is your own—and that’s the point.

So where do you start? Think about your interests, your lifestyle, your wardrobe, and the kind of vibe you want to come home to. Your space should tell your story. If you’re unsure where to begin, spend some time on YouTube checking out Architectural Digest home tours, browse art that speaks to you, or create a Pinterest board. Let your curiosity guide you.

But remember: Designing a home is more than just throwing cool stuff into a room. A Well-Crafted Man does things with intention. Here are a few things to think about:

1. Choose a Color Palette

Start with a base color for your walls—something neutral or moody that sets the tone. I personally went with a deep, moody green, and while it looks incredible, it required careful coordination with furniture, artwork, and lighting to avoid clashing. Once you pick your palette, commit to it. Let it guide your choices.

2. Layer Your Lighting

Ceiling lights? Only when necessary. A combination of warm floor lamps, table lamps, and accent lighting makes a space feel calm, cozy, and full of personality. Lighting isn’t just functional—it’s emotional. It shapes the atmosphere. Oh, and let’s go ahead and leave those LED strip lights in 2015.

3. Show Your Personality

A masculine space doesn’t have to be lifeless or cold. It should look like you live there. If you’re into Star Wars, display your Lego builds—but mix them in with art, books, or plants to avoid turning your living room into a showroom. Whether it’s gaming, cars, music, or sneakers—find ways to incorporate those passions into your space in a tasteful, mature way.

4. Design for Comfort and Consideration

Personal touches are what turn a house into a home. Think about the flow of your furniture and how it supports both your lifestyle and your guests’ comfort. Stock your shelves with books that inspire you. Keep your home smelling good—candles, incense, diffusers, whatever works. If you’ve got pets, make extra sure your space stays fresh.

5. Prepare for Guests Like a Gentleman

Being intentional extends beyond aesthetics—it’s about how you host. A well-crafted man thinks ahead. Keep feminine products in the bathroom for women in your life. Use matching towels. Add a scent to your guest bathroom. These small acts of thoughtfulness show maturity, respect, and attention to detail.

In Closing: Design with Purpose

At the end of the day, your space should be more than just “cool.” It should feel like a sanctuary. A place that reflects the man you are—and the man you're becoming. Design with purpose. Live with intention. And build a home that not only speaks to your soul, but welcomes others with warmth and style.